Doubting God


Doubting God. Is it okay to do this? Somehow doubt seems like something I can do in life, in relationships, but never with God. It might seem that doubting God would be a sin. And some people might say that it is. Others may say that without doubt, one cannot have faith. Still others will say that doubt is somewhere on a continuum of belief and disbelief. If this is the case, is it possible to doubt God while still having faith?
A dictionary definition of doubt is “to be uncertain about.” This is a good starting point to talk about doubting God. In other words, to be uncertain about God. Almost everyone will have doubts along the journey. Throughout Scripture, there are men and women of God who doubted him. Perhaps doubt, and especially the expression of it, is a great way for us to grow in our faith.


Doubting God hit me hard my freshman year of high school. My parents had always described me as a fairly spiritual person. They said as a kid I was always asking questions about God, about heaven, about faith, about anything to do with spirituality. They also said that my questions were not always safe questions. I asked questions that were filled with statements about the world without a god, or a world with a god different from the God of Christianity.

While in middle school, I settled down into a fairly comfortable search into the God of Christianity. I read my Bible furiously, asking questions about this passage and that. At that point in time, I had no doubts as to the reality of Jesus Christ and God. But three weeks into my freshman year, an event happened which shook the foundations of everything I believe, everything I “knew” to be true.

During first period on September 26, 1980, I found out that a very good friend of mine had committed suicide. For the first 48 hours or so, I was simply numb. I didn’t give a thought to anything but my friend and how he had talked with me earlier in the week. How he had told me and a couple of others how he was planning on killing himself. We laughed it off.

As the initial numbness began to lift, all I could think of was how much I hated myself because it was my fault that my friend was dead. After the funeral, which I refused to attend because I just knew people would know that it was my fault, my anger turned a different direction.

God! How could a loving God allow this to happen? How could an all-powerful God not intervene and prevent my friend from taking his life? Over the next few months, I became more and more angry at God, more and more of a loner, more and more suicidal myself.

I remember sitting in my room late one night in the spring, some five or six months after my friend had taken his life. It hit me. There was no God! How could there be? In an ironic twist, I started cursing God. It is ironic because I had come to the conclusion that there was no God, yet it was against this non-existent deity that I hurled my anger and insults and hurts.

For the next four and a half years, I wavered between doubting God’s existence and knowing there was no God. I wrote almost daily, in the form of short stories and poems, about my hatred and disappointment and lack of belief toward God. In fact, one of the recurring themes that I wrote went something like this (cleaned up version): “God, I don’t believe in you. Take that! So what are you going to do about it?”

Of course, it would go on for pages and pages with lots of expletives thrown in here and there. I mocked God every chance I had; I belittled him in front of others every chance I had. Somehow, I think it was my anger toward God that sustained me each day. It had become my purpose in life.

Those four and a half years were an incredibly dark time in my life. Other than the extent of my anger, there is not much that I remember. In fact, there is not a single person from my high school years that I keep in touch with today. I think I was a pretty unlovable person. I know I did not love myself.

But then something happened. I began to see Christ lived out in others that I knew in college. Once again, I begin to slowly consider if perhaps Jesus Christ was true. If perhaps the words of Scripture really was Truth and Life and Love and Grace.

Nearly four and a half years later, I was alone once again late at night and expressing my doubt—much softer this time. I remember a small still voice, God’s Spirit, speak to my soul: “I love you. Your doubt and your anger do not cause me to love you any less.” I am a much stronger Christ follower today because of walking through this time of doubt. Now, I embrace my doubt as a time when Christ was truly made known to me. 

Bible intro

Scripture is full of stories about doubt, everything from doubting that God exists to doubting that his promises will come through. Some of the greatest men and women of faith involved doubt. Abraham, Sara, David, Joseph, Moses, Peter, and Thomas are just some of the great figures of the redemption story that have expressed doubt. Yet, throughout their doubt, God remained faithful. In fact, because of their doubt, they were able to see God work in miraculous and mysterious ways. Below are the stories of several people who doubted.

Personal Questions
1. Do you have a story of a time when you doubted God?
2. Do you think it is wrong to doubt God? Why/why not?
3. What would you say if someone came to you saying they doubted God?
4. What do you think God’s reaction is when someone doubts him?
5. Do you think doubt is an essential part of faith? Why/why not?

God, thank you for loving me in the midst of my doubt. Sometimes I am not ever aware that you are there. Sometimes I doubt that you exist; and if you do exist, I doubt that you even know anything about me. I admit that I feel alone or afraid during times of doubt. Help me, God, to celebrate and embrace my doubt as a way of seeing you in fresh and amazing ways. I echo the prayer of the man who told Jesus “I believe, help my unbelief.” God, I do believe, but sometimes my faith is weak. Help me to believe you in all that I do. Amen.


Take a look at this family tree for Abraham. Look at how through just his one son, Isaac, Abraham experienced God’s promise come true. The entire nation of Israel – the 12 tribes – all came through that one child that Sarah doubted she could ever have!


Sometimes those periods of doubt are called a crisis of faith. Take a look at the etymology (history) of the word crisis. It might give you some insight into what you are experiencing right now.
crisis (n.)
early 15c., from Latinized form of Greek krisis "turning point in a disease" (used as such by Hippocrates and Galen), literally "judgment, result of a trial, selection," from krinein "to separate, decide, judge," from PIE root *krei- "to sieve, discriminate, distinguish" (cf. Greek krinesthai "to explain;" Old English hriddel "sieve;" Latin cribrum "sieve," crimen "judgment, crime," cernere (past participle cretus) "to sift, separate;" Old Irish criathar, Old Welsh cruitr "sieve;" Middle Irish crich "border, boundary"). Transferred non-medical sense in 1620s in English. A German term for "mid-life crisis" is Torschlusspanik, literally "shut-door-panic," fear of being on the wrong side of a closing gate.


The following Scripture is about a man who brings his possessed son to Jesus. The man finds himself in a swirl of controversy concerning why the disciples of Christ are not able to help this man’s son. What makes this story incredible is that the man expresses both faith and doubt to Jesus. Take a look back over the last week of your life, or another time where you experienced great doubt, and pick out the different times you expressed and felt great faith and doubt. After you do that, challenge yourself each day this coming week to pick a different moment of faith or doubt and spend 20 minutes talking with God about it and listening to what he might have to say in response.

Mark 9:14-29


Here is a quiz testing your knowledge of the disciple Thomas. Most of it concerns the story you read earlier about his interaction with Jesus after the resurrection. If you haven’t heard the rest of it, be sure to read the incredible stories throughout John 11-21!

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Proverbs 3:5-8 - The Scriptures plead with us to trust God and lean completely on him.

Jude 1:19-22 - Here we see how we should react to our doubt as well as to others who are struggling with doubt.

Matthew 8:26 - Even the disciples who walked with Jesus doubted his abilities.

Matthew 14:25-33 - A story of both trust and doubt all in the same event.


This clip is from Apollo 13 which tell about the space shuttle that was broken down in space and at this point in the movie no one knows if the men onboard will ever get home. As the family and friends of Jim Lovell wait for news, an old interview comes on the TV and they hear a story from his time in the military about finding his way home against all odds. As you watch, consider how those moments of doubting God may be leading you toward greater faith and understanding. 

Here is a scene from Elizabeth: the Golden Age when Sir Walter Raleigh is describing to the queen what sailing to the New World is like and how hope that you will ever come out of the fear and doubt is so fragile and yet so important. 

Life Questions
1. Make a list of some times that you have doubted God. This list might include times that you doubted the existence of God or perhaps it was a time when you doubted that he was present in your life or that he would not keep one of his promises in Scripture. As you look back on that list, make some notes on ways that God might respond to your doubt. Are there ways in which he might keep his promise in an unexpected way? Or what would it take for you to be able to trust him to keep his promise or to prove he exists?
2. Doubt is common with many people, even those we would consider heroes of the faith. Take some time to spend in nature. Slow down and really use your senses to experience life around you. What sounds do you hear? What colors do you see? Can you feel the warmth of the sun or the gentle brush of the breeze or dampness of the dew? Does nature lead you to a stronger belief in God? Ask God to reveal himself through your senses as you experience creation.

This short video is from the series Henri, which follows an indignant house cat as he observes his horrible life and the incompetence of those around him. Enjoy!